Sunday, March 19, 2017

Final Post


With advanced kidney cancer, the best hope is to delay the inevitable. With two forms of targeted therapy, immunotherapy, and an infusion called Avastin, we were able to stretch survival from the usual projection of three to six months to something closer to a couple of years. 

The spinal operation was superficially successful but still left me bedridden as a paraplegic. Given that outcome, I decided to suspend active cancer treatment and to enter hospice care. To date, such care has been provided at home. Various medical technicians and nurses have provided periodic at-home care, and my husband Sam has supplied routine home care. Without his loving care, supplemented by legions of friends and relatives, none of this extensive care would have been possible. A lifetime of friendships now surrounds me with an unending rainbow of love and devotion, for which I am daily grateful.

Whenever I'm not over-scheduled with medical appointments, I'm often engaged in conversations with longtime colleagues. My professional writing has unfortunately slowed to a trickle, as other matters have overtaken those thoughts. Perhaps I can pick up some more later. Still, I have a few pieces in the publication pipeline. An article appeared in last month's issue of a journal, and another just appeared in this month's issue. 

I'm happy to have six grown children who live nearby, and grandchildren are an endless delight. Visits with wee ones need to be fairly short; otherwise they're simply exhausting 

This month's-long journey has been a marathon, but it's had many rewards particularly in that extra time I've been able to spend with my husband. We even got married! Remember? And we traveled hither and yon, including that great transatlantic cruise and sojourns to London, Paris, and Puerto Rico. Wow!

Sixty-nine doesn't sound like a lot of lifetime, but in reality it is. I've been hugely blessed. Those folks with an overabundance of curiosity can find my autobiography and see what I mean. 

I have no grand plans for my remaining weeks. Sam got us Apple TV, which is making for some fun TV discoveries. I've publisher 17 books and an array of poems, stories, and "stuff " that seems like enough. I have a great family and more friends than I can count. What more could anyone want?

Thanks for reading. 


10 comments:

  1. God bless Donovan! ❤️ Thanks for being such a sweet friend during my time in Bloomington.

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  2. Said with Grace. Thank you Donovan.

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  3. You are an amazing human being! I feel thankful to know you.... Thank you for sharing your journey through these blog entries...

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  4. Donovan, you are such an inspiration and a wise mentor. So much of you will continue in the world for many lifetimes.

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  5. You have many who have admired your words over the years! I have always admired your peacefulness you always show. Thank you for being you - a great human being!!

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  6. Thank you for allowing so many of us to share your journey with you through your own words. I admire and respect your courage in being open with others about your experiences with cancer through this blog, which is, for me personally, very enlightening and helpful. You have had what some call a "blessed" life and have much to be thankful for. Peace, my friend.

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  7. Donovan, it is such an honor to know you and share time with you. You are an extraordinary man of rare wisdom and integrity. You have approached this journey, as you clearly have all others in your life, with honesty, intelligence, and insight, educating others as you go. Peace be with you.

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  8. Donovan, Although we don't know each other particularly well, both you and Sam have been unfailingly kind and welcoming to me, Warren, and our children. I have been so grateful to learn more about your wonderful accomplishments and to witness your creativity, wisdom, and passion at church. I wanted you know how appreciated you are, and how your wise, insightful, and peace-giving presence has impacted more people than you may realize. Love and light to both you and Sam.

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  9. thank you for your sharing and your courage, Donovan. May you and Sam take some time for simple love and let others do the 'stuff'!!

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